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| Mistakes on the first date |
The first date is a crucial step in the dating phase. What are you doing on a first date can be a sign of whether your relationship with him will continue or not. Some people make mistakes on the first date and make their relationship broke down in the future.
What are the mistakes that people often do on the first date? It could be a topic that is not appropriate to talk or attitudes that are not worthy of you show. Here's further explanation..
1. Too excessive
Whose name is on the first date does not always eat at expensive restaurants and get a kindliness to the princess from him, you know. A lot of guys who feel more comfortable with invite us to eat at the food court, and act like a best friend first.
2. Talking about ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend
Heeii, it's time for you two to know each other, instead of opening the memory with ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Guys would feel he was being compared to the former if we continue talking about the past.
3. Interrogating such as the police
This is indeed the right time to talk more much and get to know one another. But remember, way to ask it important to note. Insert a question on the sidelines of our story, or after we talked about our lives. Do not let us ask continually, until he felt being interviewed or interrogated.
I was so happy invited a date with him, we are so aggressive to him. Embracing, holding hands, or excessively spoiled just make him "run", you know.
5. Busy themselves with gadgets
Instead of talking, but we are busy with SMS / BBM at a friend's, or even play games on the iPod. Besides not polite, He also would think we are not interested in what he was talking.
6. Talking about the future
The future of the relationship is not a good topic to talk on the first date. The first date is the introductory phase. If you not yet anything, you already discussed wedding plans, it could be that it will make dating couples back away slowly.
7. Pretend
Feel not confident with yourself and then decide to wear a mask? Hmm, you're only will be busy covering a lie that one with another lie. Shall begin a relationship based on honesty. Not be yourself on the first date will make you difficulty at later of day.
8. Too long being single
Too long for single makes you judge yourself too "cheap". You willing to be any desired on dating couples even though it was conflict with the values that you profess for status. This actually makes yourself look low in the eyes of dating couples.
The first date should give a pleasant impression. Do something that makes you both feel fun so that you feel addicted to doing fun things together again someday.
